Top 3 pet peeves

I really cannot stand people (especially guys) to be...

(3) Calculative
Remembering who owes who money is perfectly fine. But when it comes to splitting the bill, that few cents matter that much? Really?
Especially annoying when the party is a much matured candidate and has a stable income. You know in that moment, as a stingy auntie here, I didn't even want that few dollars change.
That moment!! While you are waiting for your change and there he/she goes hesitating how much change to return. That awkward moment of hesitation. Or maybe you were calculating? Oh yea.

(2) No initiative
Guys don't need to hold a door for girls, open the door for girls, send girls back home right to the door step, wait for girls to decide on the food, accommodate to girls' slow eating speed, order food for girls, etc. No! Because of gender equality, we girls can do all of that by ourselves. We do not expect that coming from a guy. We have hands and legs and those basic survival skills are easy for us.
BUT, you know how much of a gentleman image you guys can leave for us girls with those basic survival skills right? EVEN FOR FRIENDS. I respect my guy friends who practice this. The only sad thing is... I can count the number of my respectable guy friends with just one hand.

(1) If you cannot control your legs, I sincerely hope that you can just shake yourself away, please.